Becoming a Better Partner.

Lots of people are normally anxious about making sex, either as their first time or with a new partner. To some other people it's a phobia thing. What is phobia? Phobia is the fear of doing something, it comes with a lot of anxiety that the body can freeze up. When it comes to sex, in my own opinion - you don't have to adopt a particular myth. You don't have to be afraid if you doing it right and much more.. You just have  to relax, reduce your anxiety and focus on the sensational experience that is bond to maximize your pleasure and promote your orgasmic experience.

This can be achieved by the following :

• Avoiding what is called accumulated sexuality mythology, also called sexuality fairytale. This is caused by over planning,waiting for the right time, place and right everything. This is wrong! 
• Another myth is the one about the man penis, how it should be eternally erect and ready for use. Thinking about the size and how huge it's meant to be. You really must be a wanker in the true sense of the word. The fact remains that it comes in different sizes and shapes in general and are much the same finally when they erect. 
• Another wrong idea is the missionary position. It completely makes sex not enjoyable! I mean it. The clitoris is in an angle where the missionary position makes it difficult for the stimulation of this area. This position is best for insemination and not for a couple enjoying luxuriate sex. 

Finally, the act of putting much pressure on orgasm. Both partners worry to much on who will come first. It's not cool.. The truth is that good sex often result in orgasm for most of the people most of the time, but orgasmic are not necessary for good sex. Each individual is responsible for turning them self on and off.
                   Prerequisite For A Perfect Sex

1. Exercise regularly and drink plenty of water. It relaxes the nerves and ensure continuous blood flow. 
2. Create ambient lightening that brings a soft glow to  the room and use aromatic candles that sends off yummy scents. 
3. You have to feel safe. Physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually with your partner. 
4. Communication cannot be left out. It's very important and ensures comfort. 
5. For lady's, know where the prostate is, so you can easily induce and retard orgasmic experience. For the guys, finding and stimulating the clitoris in a gentle manner is very important. It's a very gentle tissue therefore hard touch will cause a lot of pain_yeah it will. 

Enjoy your perfect sex, you deserve better. Till we meet again_be safe.